Thursday, January 10, 2008

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

LOVE

WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT LOVE ,WHAT COMES TO YOUR MIND?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of four through eight year olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think.

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way."
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love."
"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth."
"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs."
"Love is when someone hurts you. And you get so mad but you don’t yell at them because you know it would hurt their feelings."
"Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired."
"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
"Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."
"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you’re scared they won’t love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more."
"There are two kinds of love: Our love and God’s love. But God makes both kinds of them."
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."
"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore."
"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."
"Love cards like Valentine’s cards say stuff on them that we’d like to say ourselves, but we wouldn’t be caught dead saying."
"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you"
"You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
"God could have said magic words to make the nails fall off the cross, but He didn’t. That’s love."




love is actually some of those things and alot more ,love means different things to different people .
when i was alot younger i had a set mind about what love was to me since i wasn't raised with the love of both parents ,so my mother was the only foundation of love for me . As i grew and started dating per say i always expected so much out of a person ,If they were to hurt my feelings or do something wrong i would habor hard feelings towards them and say things like "you don't love me","love would not do that" etc when in reality i didn't know what love was ,even though i didn't know what love was at a certain point in my life i knew what kind of love i didn' want .
I hear about the kind of love my father gave my mother and by golly i sure didn't want that kind of love.

On to my dating years i was rugged ,hard ,some what cold i ran off alot the opposite sex shall we say, i didn't know how to recieve love the love i never had so it was knew to me and in alot of the situation instead of saying relationship (because really those weren't fit to be called relationships ) i never related to any of them in the sense that they couldn't understand me.

moving on i have been in "situations" where the love i was giving i felt like wasn't being reciprocrated back never understand why something i wanted so bad wasn't gel-ing for me ,I ve had situations where it was more than the two of us in the situations in this it was obvious that there meaning of love was different from mind .
I found out that most women and men ideas about love is totally different ,some men see love as them providing a roof ,food and clothes as love while women view love as spending time tell me you love me be there for me etc.

LOVE HURTS

The same love that we think is suppose to shelter us ,now hurts us wether it is accidental or purposely what do we do?

I am no way your judge to tell you what to do i can only advise you look at the situation thoroughly and make your own assesment,because believe it or not your the only one thats going to have to live with it.


Iknow if i were take a survey just about every one can tell me the kind of love they want ,but in reality some times we've already made up in our mind the kind of love we want ,then we grasp some body that doesn't fit the criteria we want but we feel as long as we have an idea we can mold the situation in to the love we want not so .


LIFE, T.V ,THE MEDIA OR OUR PEERS WILL TRY KNOWINGLY OR NOT MAKE YOU KINDA CARVE THE LOVE YOU THINK IS FOR YOU ,WE NEED TO LOVE OURSELVES FIRST DEAL WITH OURSELVES SEE AND MAKE SURE THAT WE ARE PLEASED WITH OUR SELF BEFORE WE GO AND ADD OR DEMAND THINGS FROM OTHER PEOPLE.
ANY LOVE THAT IS ONLY ONE WAY IS GOING NO WAY.

WOW

YOU KNOW THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT MAKE US SAY WOW ,SOME THINGS REQUIRE NO WORDS AT ALL AND AT TIMES OUR ACTIONS CAN'T EVEN EXPRESS WHAT WE FEEL.

WELL I HAVE DECIDED TO CREATE A BLOG PROFILE BECAUSE WEL ALL GO THROUGH THINGS AND SITUATION IN LIFE ,AND MAY BE WHO KNOWS IF WE ARE HONEST ENOUGH TO ADMIT PEOPLE CAN RELATE TO OUR SITUATION AS WELL.

THIS GIVES ENCOURAGEMENT AND HOPE TO US ,KNOWING THAT SOME ONE HAS BEEN AROUND THE SAME MOUNTAIN THAT WE ARE NOW GOING THROUGH (AND GUESS WHAT THEY SURVIVED) , THIS IS OUR FUEL TO SAY WE CAN MAKE IT ALSO. THESE ARE PEOPLE WHO WE NEED TO SURROUND OURSELVES WITH.

LIFE ALONE IS HARD ,BUT TO KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO'VE HAD VICTORY IN THE SAME AREA FEELS GREAT!!!

(THIS IS A NEW YEAR ) LET US KNOW THAT SOME TIMES WHATEVER WE GO THROUGH IS NOT ONLY FOR US ,WE GO THROUGH THINGS TO HELP OTHERS ,IN SOME PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE I HAD REALIZE THAT MY PROBLEMS ISN'T ONLY FOR ME,IT'S THAT I CAN HELP SOMEONE ELSE WHO MAY BE IN THE SAME SITUATION I WAS GOING THROUGH.

MY OUT LOOK FOR THIS NEW YEAR IS ALL OF THE THINGS THAT WEIGHED ME DOWN IN 07 CAN NOT AND WILL NOT HAVE THAT POWER IN 08.


WHAT ABOUT YOU?
THIS IS JUST THE FIRST OF MANY TO COME .
THANK YOU FOR READING .